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Every order-driven fee lowers the acquisition cost that contribution can support.
Identify the fee base and any fixed component, tier, refund reversal, chargeback, currency-conversion, or marketplace charge. Calculate an effective amount from the same period and order population as the revenue, then include that amount once in the variable-cost model.
Contribution before ads = net revenue - product cost - fulfillment - other variable cost - expected return loss - payment and marketplace fees
Break-even ROAS = net revenue / contribution before ads
Do not use a provider's advertised headline rate as an operating input when the settlement statement includes other order-driven charges. Conversely, do not include the same fee in both the percentage-fee field and another cost field.